Monday, August 20, 2012

Fate, Destiny and Life: Just a mere coincidence or meant to be...


Even wonder how you would spend an unanticipated moment in time with a total stranger? Consider this scenario if you will, two random people cross paths along the busy highways of life. At that moment they are plunged into a situation, thrown together suddenly, shared a brief moment in time and were surprisingly attracted to one another, and even connected on a level that was beyond meaningful. But in the end somehow they still did not end up together. Now I know I am not alone in feeling sad at such a tragedy befall such compatible souls, but that's only if you interpret it as an ending. I mean the mere notion that two people could connect in such a unique way, in such a way that defies logic and breaks all the rules and still not end up together is just heartbreaking.

It’s not every day that one can click…mesh so well with another and at such an opportune time and still be drawn and feel so at ease in their presence but not want to explore that.*sigh* But in life I believe that there are no real beginnings and endings; instead, everything is continuous and ongoing. There are so many things in our lives that are indefinite. Finding love and companionship certainly are among those indefinite occurrences.

Is it really a case of two random people crossing paths only by chance, or was it fate that had brought them together? I for one don’t believe in coincidences. I mean I don’t subscribe to the notion that things happen for no reason. Maybe I am being a little too optimistic or that’s just the hopeful romantic in me speaking, but I firmly believe that everything happens for a reason. People come in and out of our lives at opportune moments and impress upon us in varying degrees. Some experiences sweet as nectar from the bountiful vessels of life and other more bittersweet. At first taste the sensation sends you soaring to greater unimaginable heights then soon the lighter than air feelings soon turn sour and wither away. Not all good things were meant to be forever. Sometimes it’s enough to just relish and enjoy them for what they are for as long as the taste is agreeable.

Life’s full of a myriad mix of delightful moments strung together by more often than not rather dull and routine moments that could extract the very life that flows from within your lifeline. Those who are forever in search of that constant thrill of exciting moments are in for a rude awakening. Because unless you live in an amusement park and have an unlimited pass to all the rides of life, it isn’t happening. So, if you ever find yourself in an opportune moment having to share a moment in time with a total random stranger, but look a gift horse in the mouth. You never know what wonderful things are in store. Just open your mind, think outside the box and let your spirit roam free. I promise you, you won’t regret it! 

2 comments:

Unknown said...

..."rather dull and routine moments that could extract the very life that flows from within your lifeline. Those who are forever in search of that constant thrill of exciting moments are in for a rude awakening." -lost in cambodia

DROPPING WISDOM BOMBS ON THIS INTERNET LANDSCAPE. Heck yeah, spread the positivity message.

but watch out, because if we only see the positive than we cant also see a big ugly negative that is about to crash into us.

the glass is neither full nor empty. it simply has fluid in it.

Vary said...

Oh wow! My first comment! I think I am about to cry, I truly am! Didn't think anyone would ever comment.

On that note, yeah I rather enjoy and even relish the idea of seeing things for what they are, love it really. We all can't see things from the same perspective, but that's the beauty in life, I suppose.

"the glass is neither full nor empty. it simply has fluid in it."-Bob Smoothers.. Oh, but what tasty concoction it is, no?

Thanks again for my first comment! There is hope yet! Yay!